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The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused -- and Start Standing Up for Yourself

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I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar!

By BeatleBangs1964 - November 14, 2008

This is one of the best books about developing assertiveness in women that I have EVER read. I would heartily recommend this to everyone. Men also will benefit from reading this book as it will empower them to help women who want to change the self-defeatist patterns that being a Nice Girl can only bring. Men will also recognize changes and hopefully be ready to support new, assertive behaviors.

Engel does an excellent job of defining "The Nice Girl," the woman who has developed self-defeast behavior patterns of going along with others at the expense of her voice, her identity and her self. Each chapter itemizes the behaviors; provides excellent examples of clients who have fallen into these traps and tools of empowerment to recognize and break out of them.

The payoff is great - not only does a person's self esteem rise with assertiveness, they gain greater respect from others. Absolutely NOBODY can respect a sycophant and this book provides helpful tools to... read more

I'm now an ex-pleaser, ex-perfectionist and ex-pretender

By Valentine - November 8, 2009

I was fortunate enough to find a copy of this book at my local library. I was really interested in reading it as I've been especially frustrated with my 'life-situation' as of late and have noticed a pattern of people using me. I'm the perpetual pleaser who grew up with a depressed dad and a mother who tried to walk on water to save him from misery and self-sabotage.

I've found myself in friendships and relationships that seem so draining and I've also been mistreated at jobs, school and social gatherings. The common thread? Me! My boyfriend doesn't seem to work near as hard at giving as I do. He's content to not make all the conversation, not to have to make all the social plans and doesn't wake up in a hurry to make breakfast (as I do for him). He's the un-Nice Guy but it works well for him. He's authentic and puts himself first.

Engel does a terrific job of presenting all the excuses and attitudes of the Nice Girl...so much of society and culture demands that... read more

the Quintessential nice girl

By R. Johnson "Always learning" - November 1, 2008

I thought this book was awesome! I couldn't put it down because I needed to know more and learn more. As a quintessential nice girl, this book helped me realize how some of the things I was doing to be "nice" to protect myself from being hurt were actually putting me in a position to be hurt more often.
You can tell the author really has a caring perspective and even responded personally to an email I sent her.
Whether you're a woman who's always trying to be "nice" or just someone looking for a great informative book, read it!

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