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How to Win Your Lover Back - Top 10 Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make




How To Win Your Lover Back
Top 10 Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make
Written by Ashley Kay






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So You Want Your Love Back… Let’s
Get Started!

10 Mistakes... Are You Making These?




If you’re determined that your partner is the right one for you, then it’s best to
get a plan together to bring him or her back. The plan isn't difficult nor is it
about dirty mind tricks. Why I suggest you have a plan is because right now
you are likely too scattered to think rationally about your situation.

Feeling emotional, desperate, fearful, lonely, heart-broken and stressed are
all emotions that are playing AGAINST you when you want to get your ex
back.



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But first, let me ask you some questions. Answer honestly and be mindful
whether you're making some of these mistakes already.

Question #1 - Are you taking it seriously?

If you want your lover back, you need to be committed. You need a plan you
can follow with conviction. If you doubt yourself, if you think you can win them
back by doing what you've always done, you might not see the results you
want.

You might be offended about that. How can you NOT be
taking it seriously you ask? Well it's one thing to THINK
about doing something, it's another to actually DO it. If
you find yourself hesitating to quit smoking, lose weight or try
to curb a bad habit, when you KNOW it will make your
partner happy, then do you really want them back bad enough?



Question #2 - Are you willing to change?

Continuing on from the last question. Some people are too set in their ways to
really change. Now there is a difference between changing just for the sake of
pleasing someone else, and doing it for yourself.

You should NEVER change for someone else. That might seem contradictory


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from what I have said above. But what I mean is, if there's a behaviour you
KNOW is bad for you, but you keep doing it despite how much your ex hates
it, then perhaps you are not as committed to getting them back as you first
thought.

This section about willing to change goes deeper than a few bad behaviours.
Are you willing to sacrifice for your partner? Are you willing to change not only
for them but for yourself? For the sake of your relationship and for your
happiness?

It certainly depends on what it is you need to change, which you will have to
figure out from reading Section #1.


Question #3 - Do you have a positive self-image?

Do you feel on some level you're not good enough for your
partner? That you don't deserve them? These beliefs will
limit your ability to get them back.

Of course it might also mean you feel regretful for something
you have done. I'm not saying you should be overly cocky about the ability to
get them back, but if your self-image was poor prior to
them leaving you, then this is an area you may need to
work on.


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If you are suffering from deep depression, stress or anxiety attacks, or you find
yourself having suicidal thoughts, please do get professional help.


Question #4 - Are you paying attention to what your partner wants?

It's easy to fall into the victim mode. You're the one hurt, you're the one out of
control, and you're the one desperate to get them back. You might want your
partner to feel sorry for you, so your actions around them are also filled with
self-pity.

This is very unattractive and will only want to make your partner wish they
were somewhere else or with someone else.

Redirect your attention away from how much pain you are feeling right now
and consider your partner’s perspective. Have you hurt them equally as much
as they have hurt you?

Question #5 - Are you taking action?

Doing is more powerful than talking. The best way
to start changing yourself for the better is simply by
doing small things for yourself everyday.

These things could be:


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 Losing weight.
 Improving your finances.
 Being more grateful.
 Treating yourself and the people around you with respect.
 Taking steps each day to improve on your flaws.

Simply saying you'll change and things will be better does not equal being so.
To show your ex you really are going to change, you need to start putting that
change into action.

Question #6 - Are you confident?

People are attracted to those that are self-assured and confident in their own
abilities. For men, if your girlfriend has left you, don't simply shower them with
attention, gifts and 'I love Yous' (unless your break up was due to a lack of
those things), identify the root of the problem and go from there. If you
apologize blindly without dealing with the core issues, your ex will see
through your blatant persuasions.

Question #7 - Do you feel the need to panic?

Panicking at this stage will only do you a great deal of unnecessary damage.
This means drunk dialing, constant text messaging, stalking and talking to
their friends/family to try to get them back. These are all things to be avoided!

If you're suffering from panic attacks (which is very different from the above),


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you can find help and cure here.

Question #8 - Do you have misguided beliefs about gaining their trust
and love back?

You can never EXPECT them to come back. Thinking that way will come
through in your actions and this will only repel their desire to come back. Be
genuine and loving to your partner but never expect to get the same in return.

Question #9 - Are you too proud?

You need to realize what is most important. Winning the battle or winning your
love back. Swallow your pride and don't let a good thing go just because of
your ego.

Question #10 - Are you drowning yourself in a great deal of self-abuse?

It is much too common for people to drown in their
sorrow with alcohol, drugs or anything of that
nature. This is NOT the time to start being self-
destructive.

You need to be in the best shape you can be right now. This means eating
healthy, exercising, getting out of the house etc. Substance abuse is not only
bad for your body; it will only make you feel worse in the long-run.



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(If you have an addiction to alcohol, or drugs, please refer here to get
treatment and help.)

What if you've made some of these mistakes already? Is it too late to get
them back? I get asked this many times and often people believe they have
made far too great of a mess of their situation to ever hope to get their ex
back.

The truth is, all the mistakes you have made up to this point isn't as important
as compared to the OVERALL scheme of things, AS LONG AS you start
changing right now!

If we all believed our past equalled our futures then not much would ever get
accomplished, and people would stop trying after their first blunder.

Now with that said, you shouldn't completely IGNORE the past or your past
mistakes. Remember they are there to tell you something, that things need to
change and you have the power to change them RIGHT NOW.

But now here is the big dilemma.

How do you change? How do you begin to not only stop making the
mistakes but let your ex see you're not the person they broke up with, but the
person they fell in love with instead?

The great news is, you're not the ONLY one with this problem. In fact, many


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