How To Get Your BoyfrieQnduest Biaon:c k After Breaking Up With Him
I left my ex boyfriend a while back and miss him a great
deal. I do really regret my decision. We are still friends and
talk a lot. But there isn't that spark like the first time,
please, please, please help me!
You're not the first woman to do this and you won't be the
last. Many women have made the mistake of breaking up
with their boyfriends only to later realize that what they
really wanted was right in front of them the whole time.
Irrespective of how difficult and hopeless your situation may be, you have to remember that
there is hope that you and your ex boyfriend can be back together again.
Here are some time tested guaranteed ways to get your ex boyfriend back, they have proved
helpful for millions of women and they can work for you also.
Just make sure you diligently carry out each step, and be willing to put in the time and effort
along the way.
It's likely you have come across one or more of these steps at other places, however if you truly
want to maximize your chances of success you'll need follow all the steps, in order.
OK, now onto the steps:
1. Break off all contact
If you still have contact with your ex, now is the time to break it off. Don't keep in touch with him
at this time. The last thing you need or want from him is to think of you as a backup plan if
things fall through with someone else.
It's important that he feels the fear of thinking that he has lost you for good and he can't do that
if you're always talking to him (it doesn't matter if he calls you or you call him, either way it's
bad). I know this is hard to do in part because you're very vulnerable and worried that if you give
him too much space he'll meet someone else.
But what you have to remember is that even though he may meet someone else, which isn't
good for you, but if he's still hung up on you he won't fall for them. In fact meeting other people
and finding out that he isn't as compatible with them as he was with you will just make him miss
2. Give him space
This is a fantastic way to get him back even though I know it sounds backwards right now. The
real goal of this step here is to give him time and space to miss you and for you to work on
some personal things in your life. During this time you should be figuring out what issues you
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back, it's about you owning up to your character traits that aren't really all that good and trying to
This is important because if you and your guy do get back together, you'll just repeat the same
destructive cycles all over again unless one, or both, of you makes changes to the way they act.
This step will take time, usually between several weeks to several months, but you have to do it.
Not only can this step help you in your relationship with your ex if the two of you do reunite, it
can also help you in all aspects of your life and make you a better person.
3. Casually contact him
After you've made the needed improvements you need to get hold of your ex and ask them if
they'd like to meet up. Remember to keep this very casual, don't make it sound like you want to
meet with them to talk about your relationship. Most likely they will refuse to meet because
they'll be worried that it will end up in a fight.
A more effective approach would be to just ask them whether they'd like to meet for coffee as
old friends. During the time the pair of you are together, he'll see the changes you've made in
your life and hopefully that will be all it takes to convince him that the two of you should be
The Bottom Line.
These 3 tips to get your ex boyfriend back are just a few things you can do during your breakup
to try and get back together with him. Don't be fooled by its simplicity though; they work, and
they've worked for lots of other women in your exact situation and they can work for you too.
Just give them an honest try.
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