My Husband Came Back To Me After His Af air -
Does He RQueesatiloy n: S til Love Me?
"I'm really happy to see my husband again
after his affair, but I've got a few questions
for him. He told me that he still loved me and
that he never stopped loving me and that he
wants to save our marriage. But something
inside me tells me that he's not being totally
honest.
There are times when I think it's because the other woman wanted
him to commit more seriously to her and that he felt that ending our
marriage would be too messy.
Am I over reacting here or are my suspicions justified?"
Answer:
Most women are relieved when their men come back home after an
af ir. But it also doesn't mean that everything's ok again. Often
times there are lingering questions that ned to be answered. Most
women will say to themselves "did he really come back for me
because he loves me or did something go wrong with te other
woman?"
Many women often fear that their men are back because things
simply didn't work out as expected with the other woman. Or that
they've only come back because they fel financially responsible and
obligated towards their children.
It's normal for you to have questions after your husband returns.
And you are going to wonder ifhe's totally genuine in his emotions


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Does He Realy Stil Love Me?
or if it's all an act. Again, this is normal, but if it goes on for too long
then it can actually end up hurting you and hindering your progres
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I think it would be a major problem if a woman didn't have any
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When you've ben betrayed and humiliated by someone who's
supposed to love and cherish you, you can't help but question their
motives. And the reality is that it's a form of self presrvation.
And unfortunately you can't read his mind so you'll never really
know what he's thinking or feling. So how can you get around this?
Well you've really only got two ways to analyze what he says.
The best way to do this is to listen to what he says as well as se
what he does. Because he can and will say anything, but only his
actions will 'tell' you if he really means what he says. Don't be
surprised if it takes a while because just like a puzle, a singular
action is just one piece and if you want to get the whole picture,
you're going to ned all the pieces.

Focus On the Outcome Not the Perceived Motivation
I understand your hesitation to take what your husband says to you
at face value. And I also understand you wanting to believe that your
husband is home for the right reasons because he loves you and


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Does He Realy Stil Love Me?
wants to save your mariage and that you might doubt him from
time to time. I know that for the first little while, you're going to be
focusing heavily on this. But if you're not careful, it can and will eat
you up inside and destroy any progres you've made.
Here's wher the real problem is. Because you don't fully know how
he fels, you can't get a definitive answer that mets your neds or
what you think you ned. And you risk placing so much emphasis on
this that you'll never get past it until it gets resolved, which could be
a long time. And as I allude to, this can be a very vicious and
destructive cycle.
If you focus too much on why he came back, you miss the fact that he
chose you over her and came back to you. As time goes on you'l
slowly uncover the truth about why he came back. But if you focus
only on the why, then you may not be focused enough on the how.
And by that I mean that you're not focusing on how you are going to
make this situation better and get through this.
At some point in your relationship you're going to have to place
your faith in love and focus on the opportunity that you have to
build a better mariage with your husband. As the original question
allude to, the wife was having difficulty believing that her husband
truly wanted to be there with er. But I have a question for her. "Are
you willing to place all your focus on his perceived intention and
risk ruining your progres?" This is a time to ask yourself "what do I
really want from him?"
Now I bet I know what you want and that's ahusband who truly
loves you and is ther because he wants to be ther. But isn't this


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Does He Realy Stil Love Me?
exactly what you already have? Lok around. Your husband is under
your roof, sleeping in your bed and telling you that he loves you and
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Time will tell if he's being truthful about how he fels about you. So
as I mentioned earlier you've got two choices. You can either fill the
relationship with doubt and uncertainty and potentially ruin any
progres you may have already made; or you can give it time and se
how your husband's words eventually match is actions.
Ther will come a time in your relationship when you'll know how
you can trust your husband again without being taken for a fol.
Understanding the five forms of trust in a marriage, as well as which
ones you can give and which ones you can hold back without
harming your relationship will help save your mariage and
improve your progres.
The points in this article are ones you can use to help rebuild and
restore trust in your mariage after an af ir but if you're looking for
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Document Outline

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