The 4 Adjustments That Will Save Your Marriage from the Brink of Divorce

6/13/2012



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The 4 Adjustments That Wil Save Your Mar iage from the Brink of Divorce
Question:

I think my marriage is in trouble and
I want to save it. Is there anything I
can do aside from professional
counseling that can help us
immediately?
Answer:
That's a great question and it's omething that gets asked by a lot of
couples who fel that their mariages are on the rocks but don't
want to go to profesional counseling. Luckily, ther are 4 things you
can that will help save your mariage and no e of them are difficult
and all 4 of them are inexpensive. In fact, they're so simple that
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The very first thing you should do, especially during an argument is
to just let it go. Is being right the most important thing in your
marriage? I want you to seriously think about that for a minute.
Each and every time you and your spouse have a disagrement,
somebody instinctively wants to be right every time, it's human
nature.
Now don't misunderstand me her, I'm not sugesting that you ned
to simply flip over and be a dor mat during an argument. But what I
am saying is that when you go to bed at night, being loved and
cherished by your spouse is a lot more important than being right all
the time.


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It's important to remember that when your spouse maried you,
they were looking for Mr. or Mrs Right, not Mr. or Mrs. Always Right.
So drop your guard and just let it go. After you do this a few times,
your spouse will start to follow suit and remember, nothing as
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One of the most efective things you can do to save your mariage is
to start dating each other again. This is especially true if you've ben
married for a long time and have fallen i to a routine of familiarity
and boredom with each other.
Now ther are two ways that you can go about this. The first way is
to sit down as a couple and schedule your dates in the calendar so
that you both know what's happeni g and at what time. The benfit
to doing it this way is that you'll always know the status as far as
your date is concerned and you won't have to worry about it falling
through. The disadvantage to this system is that it lacks the lement
of surprise and excitement.
The second way to go about dating your spouse again is to do it on
the sly and ad the element of surprise. By documenting a list of
your spouse's favorite things to do and then secretly planing dates
around them provides you with t e aditional bonus of surprising
them which can ad to the exhilaration of the date. The problem
with this is that if anything last minute pops up, the date may fall
through.
So what I recommend you do now is take a look at your schedule
and determine if you can surprise your spouse with a date or if it
neds to be plan ed and then go out and do it.


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3. Put each other first.

This is one of the most important things you can do to help save
your mariage. Putting your partner's neds ahead of your own
shows them how deply you care about them. And I'm willing to bet
you did this when your first started dating.
As humans, we al have things that make us happy. Some like to be
told they're loved while others show small gestures of afection.
Either way, the more efort you put into your partner, the les you'll
have to put into fixing your mariage.
If you're strugling for ideas on how to make this happen, start
small and go from ther. For example, if you're the man in the
relationship, try doing the dishes after dinner every night for a
week, or help put the kids to bed.
If you're the woman in the relationship, give your man the
opportunity to be the knight in shin g armor and let him save the
day because doing this will make him fel valued and important in
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Love and marriage are not based solely on sex, but it does play an
important part. Most women don't know this, but men conect
emotionally to women through sex, so when you're man is pawing at
you wanting to go to the bedrom what he's really loking for is to
conect emotionally with you.
If you're the man in the relationship, it's important to stoke the fires.
Take time each night to do something small for your wife that lets
her know she's appreciated and valued. Try rubing her fet or back


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while you're watching tv or run ing your fingers through er hair,
but do something that requires you to uch her and not in sexual
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Thes 4 things will go a long way to saving your marriage especially
if you're on the brink and thinking about divorce, but they will only
work if you put in the fort.
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