What Do Men Want in a Woman? Guys Mind Decoded

By Praveenben
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Contents
Becoming the Girl Men Adore.....................................................................4
Being a Woman.........................................................................................5
Women Offer Advice, Men Offer Solutions...................................................6
A Woman's Power to Influence...................................................................8
What Do Men Really Want...........................................................................9
Women Use Words, Men Tune Out..............................................................10
Empowering Your Man.....................................................................................12
On the Outside..........................................................................................13
OK - Here We Go: In Bed ...........................................................................14
Conclusion..............................................................................................15
Recommend.............................................................................................16
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Becoming the Girl Men Adore
You see, while men are visual creatures and that first attraction is
sparked from looks, you would be surprised to find out how much more
men actually want from women.
A team of sociologists conducted a study, trying to understand if there
was a common denominator that men found attractive in women; that
one thing that would get any guy to want to go over and talk to a girl.
You would never guess what the result was. No, it wasn't her body parts
and her features, either.
It was her smile. The majority of men stated that
they found nothing as attractive as a woman's
smile.
Women are often afraid to be women, to appear
feminine or vulnerable because they equate it with being weak.
However, quite the opposite is true, because a woman who is in tune
with herself and shows her vulnerability wields much more power over a
man than if she were to constantly act tough.
We will be exploring many of the differences between men and women
in this book and how it is that those differences give us more strength
than any rules society may seek to impose upon us. And once you allow
your inner woman to shine through, then you will become the girl that
all men adore and can't live without.


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Being a Woman
A lot of the problems we have in our relationships stem from a lack of
understanding, in other words we have no idea why guys act the way
they do. In fact, they often don't know why they act the way they do so
it's no surprise we have trouble deciphering their responses.
However, before we begin to explore these fundamental differences, it's
worth taking a step back and looking at ourselves in the mirror because
if we don't learn to finally accept who and what we are, we will never be
able to make the necessary changes to become the woman men adore.
The biggest problem we have right now is our perception of ourselves.
The reason for this is quite simple. Men are competitive by nature,
women are not. Therefore, to succeed in the workplace, more and more
women have had to become just as competitive as men.
Sadly women are grossly mistaken because
our femininity is in no way a weakness, but,
in fact, a strength, as it is the one thing that
allows us to influence men much more
effectively than any argument or competition
ever will. Men are disarmed by a woman's
softness simply because men were designed
to fight and women were designed to nurture.



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Women Offer Advice, Men Offer Solutions
What many women don't seem to understand is that men are completely
different. They process information differently, they relate to one
another differently, they express themselves differently. However, a
woman who understands these differences will become a priceless gem
that men will adore. John Gray, in Men Are from Mars, Women Are from
Venus explains it wonderfully: "Love is magical, and it can last, if we
remember our differences."
In fact, it is these exact differences between men and women that spark
passion and love because otherwise men wouldn't need women and vice
versa.

Understanding Men

Yes, it is quite possible to understand men and it
is probably easier for us to understand them than
the other way around. First of all, you need to
understand that men are primarily driven by
success and accomplishment. They value
tangible results, efficiency and power and
everything they do is geared towards proving themselves.
Men won't sit around and talk about their feelings, instead they prefer to
engage in competitive activities where they can win. It gives them the
chance to show off their superiority over other males.
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He is more interested in things rather than feelings. And he likes things
that help him express power, whether a fancy sports car or the latest
gadgets and gizmos.
Solutions vs Advice
Men are goal driven and they feel good about
themselves when they manage to achieve their goals
because they prove that they are worthy and
competent. If they do so on their own then that is an
even greater testament to their power and strength.
If women can understand this side of men, then they will understand
why men hate being corrected or advised without asking for it. It makes
them feel incompetent and they feel that you don't trust them to solve
the problem.
Dealing with Stress
Men also deal with stress differently than
women do. A woman will talk about all her
problems with her friends. On the other hand,
men tend to withdraw and focus on a different
activity so that they can tune out their problems
until the following day when they have to
handle them.
Unfortunately, most women think that he doesn't care about her or is
ignoring her because he isn't talking about his problems with her when
it's simply a matter of how men deal with stress differently than women.


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You need to understand that if he withdraws
to watch football or read the newspaper, it
doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it simply
means he is very stressed. You need to learn
not to take it personally and to give him a
little space. Also, if you ask for his attention
in a calm and relaxed manner you will find he will be much more
responsive than if you start the blame game.
A Woman's Power to Influence
A woman wants to talk about her problems whereas men tend to become
introverted and like to figure out their problems on their own. When
women share their problems they tend to offer solutions.
Men simply don't know how to empathize because it isn't part of their
makeup. Women have a powerful "weapon", if it can be called that, to
influence men. It lies in our vulnerability. By opening your heart up and
expressing your true feelings you will be surprised at the results.
You see, there are few things that make a man
happier than knowing he can make his woman feel
good and when she is upset, he wants to do
everything in his power to make her feel better. If
you can learn to genuinely express your feelings to
him rather than rattle off a list of problems then
you will find that he will become much more receptive.


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What Do Men Really Want
First and foremost, you need to understand that men like things simple.
They don't overanalyze every phrase you say looking for a hidden
meaning nor do they speak in riddles. In fact, you can be certain that in
most cases, when a man says something that's exactly what he means in
that moment.
What does this mean? It means that men adore women who tell them
straight what they feel and don't feel.
Man will respond much better if your delivery is
soft and feminine rather than shouting your head off
at him. By being soft and feminine you completely
disarm him because men want to make their women
happy. On the other hand, if you start yelling, all
you are doing is basically competing with him and
he will start treating you like one of the guys because guys compete
against each other.
You see, men marry women who make them feel good and because they
have such trouble accessing their own emotions, they love being with a
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